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Humility and tolerance
October 22, 2010  |  radhanath-swami

Richard (now Radhanath Swami) soon learnt that one of the most special devotees in Vrindavan was Krishnadas Babaji. Krishnadas Babaji would sing devotional songs with great absorption and often struggled to restrain tears. Although he was seventy years old, he was like an inexhaustible volcano, erupting with ecstasy each time he chanted the Lord’s holy names. Richard learnt that Babaji knew fluent English but never spoke a word of it until it was absolutely required. Richard was particularly impressed by this because he had met many in India who would try to show off even little bit of English they knew. But babaji had no trace of arrogance.

In Krishnadas Babaji’s association, Richard’s misconception that silent meditation is the path of spirituality was shattered. He saw the obvious power of Babaji’s knowledge, detachment and love, and concluded that chanting and dancing is not sentimental but a deep expression of love for the Lord. Babaji spoke with great feeling about Lord Chaitanya Mahaprabhu who descended five hundred years ago and distributed love of God in the easiest possible way.

Radhanath Swami recollects that Krishnadas Babaji was empowered to chant the holy names constantly because he had no trace of pride and sought no adoration. While teaching young Richard (now Radhanath Swami), Babaji revealed the essence of Lord Chaitanya’s philosophy that one should strive to be  more humble than a blade of grass, more tolerant than a tree, and to offer all respect to others while expecting none for one’s self. Only in this way one can taste the nectar of the Holy Name.

Humility, sometimes misconstrued as a weakness, is actually a power that few people tap. Radhanath Swami, quoting his guru, says, “Humility means the freedom from the anxiety of having the satisfaction of being honoured by others.” Radhanath Swami also contrasts this by saying that pride, the opposite of humility, makes us crave for honour from others as our source of happiness. When a proud person is disrespected, his lack of freedom becomes appallingly obvious; he is forced by pride to lose his prudence and explode with words and actions, often hurting the other person and even himself far beyond what the situation warrants. Humility, on the contrary, brings freedom from the craving for external honour and empowers us to act for our and everyone’s long-term good. Radhanath Swami’s pearl like wisdom shines forth in his declaration, “Humility doesn’t mean that we let others trample upon us without protesting, but that we don’t let others’ (mis) behaviour determine our decisions and lives. Humility allows us to calmly consider the cause of disrespect and maturely adopt a principled course of action to clarify the situation and rectify the misdemeanour.”

Radhanath Swami gives equal importance to tolerance and considers it to be an underutilized power. A relative behaves unreasonably, a colleague speaks impolitely, a power cut upsets our plans, and another vehicle cuts across our path-such daily situations offer rich premiums for the tolerant. Tolerance empowers us to not let irritating circumstances steal our peace of mind. “Lack of tolerance makes us a victim of our circumstances”, says Radhanath Swami, “whereas tolerance brings the freedom to choose an intelligent response and stay fixed in our values and goals, irrespective of our circumstances.”

Radhanath Swami’s emphasis on humility and tolerance brings to mind an example that one friend gave. Our biceps protect us from physical dangers. Similarly, humility and tolerance protect us from internal over-reactions to externally distasteful situations. Thus they constitute our inner muscles, which we can increase by the spiritual bodybuilding exercise of chanting the holy names of God.

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125 Comments


  1. Building our internal muscles is very important than external muscles.

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  2. Nice article……Particularly I liked the statement ‘Chanting and dancing is not sentimental but a deep expression of love for the Lord’…..externally I have been doing the same for years but this statement is very powerful & clarifies the purpose of chanting & dancing……..

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  3. Radhanath Swami is himself a very wonderful example of humility & tolerance.

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  4. hrishikesh mafatlal

    Radhanath Swami’s deep realizations on humility and tolerance are something I have never realized from anyone before—-they are simply awesome! It just reflects his own humility and tolerance.

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  5. santipur nath das

    thank you for wonderful article

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  6. Dr Yuvaraj J Bhosale

    Radhanath Swami, quoting his guru, says, “Humility means the freedom from the anxiety of having the satisfaction of being honoured by others.”

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  7. If we become humble & tolerant, then we can make rapid progress in our spiritual life. Radhanath Swami is a wonderful role model for all of us in this regards.

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  8. very nice blog

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  9. Just like Radhanath Swami mentions in this blog, humility & tolerance are two very essential attributes that we need to possess in order maintain good spiritual health!

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  10. All Glories To H.H Radhanath Swami Maharaj

    An excptional piece of wisdom, just price less. Even a small attept to practice will one day make us a sage.

    Thank you Maharaj, Thank you so so much.

    Hare Krishna

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  11. Humility & tolerance are two essential attributes that we need to possess in order maintain spiritual health. H.H Radhanath Swami is a role model for all of us in this regard. H.H Radhanath Swami Mahraj ki jai.

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  12. Mitali kallianpur

    very nice article

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  13. Radhanath Swami learnt this principle of humility & tolerance from many genuine saints on his spiritual quest & he himself teaches his followers to keep these principles in heart at all times.

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  14. In every lecture of Radhanath Swami these words of humility and tolerance play a major role. Thank you Radhanath Swami for teaching us the highest principles to progress in spirituality.

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  15. sangharatna bhamare

    Our biceps protect us from physical dangers. Similarly, humility and tolerance protect us from internal over-reactions to externally distasteful situations. Thus they constitute our inner muscles, which we can increase by the spiritual bodybuilding exercise of chanting the holy names of God.

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  16. This statement about humility, by Radhanath Swami, should become the official definition in the worlds leading dictionaries and books.

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  17. Thank you for sharing the experiences by Radhanath Swami about the importance of humility.

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  18. Very wonderful mediation. I pray at the lotus feet of Maharaj that one day I also develop humility and tolerance by which I can overcome all the obstacles in the path of Bhakti. Thanks for sharing this wonderful meditation.

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  19. wonderful,thank you

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  20. Humility is the ornament of the gentleman

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  21. the results of this spiritual body building exercise we can see in Radhanath Swami’s life which gives us faith to continue the exercise

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  22. Amazing power of Humility which is really underestimated ….thanks to radhanath swami

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  23. Maharaj is teaching us what is real humility.

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  24. wonderful article

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  25. Thank you Radhanath Swami for teaching us to become humble servants of Lord

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  26. Radhanath swami’s inner muscles are v powerful and lets try to follow the same.

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  27. Thanks to Radhanath Swami.

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  28. Hariiii bol. Thanks for sharing.

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  29. Radhanath Swami Maharaj is humility & tolerance personified!

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  30. We are so grateful to Radhanath swami for presenting these principles so clearly and scientifically.

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  31. Thanks for wonderful article.

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  32. Humility means the freedom from the anxiety of having the satisfaction of being honoured by others. What a brilliant quote. Radhanath Swami has the knack of absorbing the most wonderful realisations on the topic of humility.

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  33. Thank you very much for explaining the essense of Teaching of Chaintanya Mahara, Chanting the holyname with great humility.

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  34. Krishnadas Babaji’s story one of the most inspiring story in this book.

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  35. Thank you for sharing.

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  36. These words are so enlightening that I wish to read them again and again. Radhanath Swami is expert at revealing gems of wisdom hidden deep within the mine of ancient wisdom.

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  37. Thank you Maharaja for teaching us the valuable principles to lead our life according to

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  38. rambaboo maheshwari

    Who does not want freedom from the anxiety and by following these simple tips from Radhanath Swami we learn to Tolerate which empowers us to not let irritating circumstances steal our peace of mind.

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  39. This is why Radhanath swami personally in his life follow these principles of being Humility, Tolerance, Giving respect to everyone and Expecting none in return….and he wants his followers to accept the same mood….then one can chant the Holy names of God constantly.

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  40. Radhanath Swami spiritual path has made progress because he always believed on the principles of humility and tolerance. One can get to know about his struggle on the spiritual path from his autiobiography ” The Journey home”.

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  41. A wonderful lesson on tolerance by Radhanath Swami

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  42. Excellent article!!! Radhanath Swami has given real deep meaning of Humility and tolerance. Thank you for sharing…

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  43. thank u maharaj for giving us better vision in life rather having hypocritic way of life

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  44. Thank You very much GuruMaharaj

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  45. Radhanath Swami Maharaj stresses on humility and tolerance again and again. These are very essential to taste the nectar of the holy names as shown by Krishnadas Babaji Maharaj.

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  46. humility and tolerance. deep virtues. worth striving for

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  47. Radhanath swami maharaj always teach us tolerance and humility through his personal example.

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  48. Radhanath swami maharaj helps us to come this level by reminding us of this priciple “amanina manadena…” in each and every lecture and hence helping in strengthen our spiritual muscles…

    All glories to HH Radhanath swami maharaj

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  49. This arcile is amazing..thanks hari bol

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